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Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts

Thursday, October 11, 2018

Bridal Gowns

Posted by: Ruth A Casie

Marriage is one of the great public occasions in a person’s life at which the principals can revel in being the center of attention. For the bride, it is Her Big Day and for centuries women have worked hard to make every detail special, memorable, and perfect especially their wedding dress.
Medieval Brides
Royal princesses were more ‘royal’ on the wedding days. In the medieval era, when royal weddings were great political events and used to seal alliances, the bride had to look majestic. She had to uphold the prestige of her country, impress the in-laws and their country with her own wealth, and if possible outshine them.
In days when all fabrics were hand spun, woven and dyed, and economical use of fabric was normal, wedding gowns made with more material, dyed with expensive dyes, and expensively accented made the statement the bride’s family was wealthy. Skirts were gathered, sleeves were down to the ground and trains were long. Rich colors were used because these dyes were expensive. Furs and jewels were often used as accents. No expense was spared.
The gowns for lower class brides were also formal. They too tried to impress. Humbler fabrics and dyes were used but brides copied the styles of the nobility and trimmed their dresses with less expensive furs, rabbit or fox.
Peasant brides wore cloth died green or blue. Weddings were still a special occasion for the lower classes as well. They dressed as formally as possible wearing humbler fabrics, but styled on the order of the nobility as much as possible. They used flowers and ribbons to enhance their gowns.
By the 1300’s wedding gowns were the ‘bold coat,’ fitted over gowns worn over the kirtle or under dress. The ‘coat’ was laced up and had long sleeves, and a long slit up the front to show the under dress and train.
Some shade of white has always been a favorite. It symbolized virginity and innocence. But white was not practical and not always worn. Blue, associated with the Virgin Mary, was another symbol of purity as well as fidelity and eternal love was also worn. Brides who wore blue believed their husbands would be true to them. If they didn’t wear blue, they wore something blue, a tradition that we still see today. Other popular colors for bridal gowns were pink, yellow, even brown and grey.
Victorian Brides
In 1840, Queen Victoria married Prince Albert and wore a relatively plain white satin gown. Her headdress was a wreath of orange blossoms with a lace veil and eighteen foot train. Their official wedding picture was published around the world and the white wedding gown became the fashion of high society.
The Industrial Revolution brought about great changes even in wedding gowns. Materials were more accessible and reasonably priced.  By 1890, the white wedding gown became a tradition.
Edwardian Brides and Onward

This period brought about more extravagance in wedding gowns with lace and pearl embellishments. Overtime, hemlines rose and tight laces corsets disappeared. Wedding gowns followed the fashion of the day and reflected the economics and politics of the time. During WW1, styles became simpler. Gowns in the 1920’s reflected the flapper style. During the depression, brides wore their ‘best’ dress for their wedding with many brides dying their white wedding dress after the wedding to get more use out of it.
The picture above on the right is special to me, My grandparents, Samuel and Ida Finkelstein on their wedding day March 7, 1908.
Modern Fairy Tale Weddings


Grace Kelly’s marriage Prince Rainier of Monaco in 1956 set the next big trend. Her wedding gown was a white high-necked, long-sleeved gown with fitted torso and billowing skirt made of twenty-five yards of silk taffeta, one hundred yards of silk net, peau de soie, tulle and Brussels rose point lace. She wore a Juliet cap decorated with seed pearls, orange blossoms, and a veil of 90 yards of tulle. Like Queen Victoria's wedding before her, Princess Grace's wedding set the trend for the next decade and big white wedding dresses were in.
This picture above on the right is my sister, the bride, my brother and me. You can see a similarity in the wedding gown style. Her wedding was in 1953, a bit before Princess Grace’s. I like to think my sister set the trend.
Lady Diana’s wedding to Prince Charles in 1982 was also a spectacular wedding complete with a Victorian styled dress. It was puff-sleeves with a fitted bodice, full skirt ivory taffeta on a grand scale. Diana’s gown was not understated, it was grand. It was grand. The nineties saw a return to sleeker, less complicated styles.

Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle – Today’s Brides

Fairy Tale weddings continue to draw our attention and play to our dreams. Who doesn’t see Prince Charming with his Cinderella in these pictures?
Today, brides dress in any style from ornate designer dresses to informal dresses and suites. While the traditional colors remains white, eggshell, ecru, and ivory colored wedding gowns are coming back in style.
Our Fairy Tale Wedding
Last month, our future daughter-in-law asked me to go wedding gown shopping. I joined her sister and her aunt at the bridal shop. It’s very different being the mother of the groom especially after working with both my daughters on their weddings. But some things are the same.
My eyes teared with each gown she put on. One was prettier than the next. I’ve only known her for five years, but I’ve seen her grow and blossom as a young woman and as my son’s partner.
When she walked out of the dressing room in front of me stood a poised beautiful princess in a white  lace gown. Seed pearls and crystals embellished the bodice and skirt all the down to the gorgeous lace trimmed train. I’d love to tell you more, but I’ve been sworn to secrecy. You'll have to wait until September 1, 2019 (9-1-19, my son loves the palindrome) to see how lovely she looks.

Saturday, June 11, 2016

Married By the King's Command

Posted by: Ruth A Casie
Weddings. When we discussed this theme I knew exactly what I wanted to share with you. Lord Alex, a seventh son, would do anything for a domain of his own. Below is an excerpt where Alex finds out what his King has in store for him. Grab a cup of tea, coffee or a glass of wine. I hope you enjoy the scene as much as I had writing it. 
She must choose between keeping her secret and
losing the man she loves.
England, 1290
Lord Alex Stelton can't resist a challenge, especially one with a prize like this: protect a castle on the Scottish border for a year, and it's his. Desperate for land of his own, he'll do anything to win the estate—even enter a proxy marriage to Lady Lisbeth Reynolds, the rumored witch who lives there.     
Feared and scorned for her second sight, Lisbeth swore she'd never marry, but she is drawn to the handsome, confident Alex. She sees great love with him but fears what he would think of her gift and her visions of a traitor in their midst.
Despite his own vow never to fall in love, Alex can't get the alluring Lisbeth out of his mind and is driven to protect her when attacks begin on the border. But as her visions of danger intensify, Lisbeth knows it is she who must protect him. Realizing they'll secure their future only by facing the threat together, she must choose between keeping her magic a secret and losing the man she loves.
Review for The Guardian’s Witch
As a fan of historical romances, this book has got it all. With the added spice of the paranormal that has been added, the book got even better. Having read a book of this nature by this author previously, I can honestly say that it was a joy to read. The story was a beautiful tale of love and betrayal, and the enduring faith of the human heart. The characters are delightful and charming, and quite easily drew me in. I found this novel to be thoroughly enjoyable and totally delightful.
...Night Owl Romance Top Pick - 4.5 Stars

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Excerpt from The Guardian’s Witch
The king’s message on the top of a very orderly pile of papers on his desk caught his eye. The bold red seal screamed for attention. Lord Alex thought about the last time he saw King Edward.
“Alex, are you still here?” King Edward came out of his private apartment.
Alex uncurled to his full height from the hard bench. “Yes, Your Majesty.”
Early in the morning a royal messenger had pounded on his door and rousted him out of bed. He had handed Alex the summons. The king demanded Alex attend him. But that was hours ago. He had planned to leave this morning as soon as the castle gates were open, and instead had spent the day suffering in the small antechamber. The room filled and emptied several times while he paced, cursed and finally sat and waited. His anger long gone, he was resigned to the whim of his king.
“Where is everyone?” The king looked around the room. He had a surprised look on his face.
Alex followed the king’s gaze. “It seems, sire, I’m the last one left. You wanted to see me—this morning.” Alex approached the king.
Edward’s face gave nothing away. His slow, mischievous smile annoyed Alex. What was the man up to?
“Yes, Alex. Come with me.” The king treaded the well-worn carpets with a lively step and led Alex up one hall and down another until Alex was certain they would end up back at the king’s chamber. “Ah, here we are.” The king threw the doors open revealing a large party. Everyone quieted and made way for His Majesty.
One courtier’s voice rang out. “To the bridegroom.” Alex looked startled. Who was the bridegroom? Then the chaos began.
Alex, accompanied by King Edward through the tumult, was the center of attention. His back was pounded and his arm pumped by anyone close enough to touch him. When they got through the room, the king’s man brought the crowd to silence when he pounded his staff on the floor.
“Lord Alex,” said Edward. “Say goodbye to your bachelor days. Tonight you marry.”
Alex felt the blood drain from his face. He quickly summoned up his control to stall the display of any emotion.
“You’ve succeeded where the others have failed. Every other protector I’ve sent to Glen Kirk has gone missing. Was it Lady Lisbeth’s beauty and charms that kept you there?”
The mention of Lisbeth’s name among this crowd made his temper rise. The room exploded in loud laughter. A flurry of activity left Alex draped in flowers and propelled onto the small dais where a veiled woman stood attended by two others. Alex glared at the king.
Edward leaned close to ensure only Alex heard. “If only you could see your face.”
“A word, sire,” Alex asked in a controlled quiet tone.
“You have my full attention,” the king said softly as he nodded recognition to courtiers.
“There was no mention of a marriage.”
“And your point?”
“Sire, I’m certain I will marry, but it will be to a woman of my own choosing.” Alex held to a thin glimmer of hope that this was all a bad hoax.
The king’s expression turned hard. “Do you doubt my judgment?”
Alex looked at his king and knew all was lost. “No, sire.” He bowed his head slightly in submission. “But would you reconsider?” He could hear the desperation in his voice.
“You know I have your best interest at heart.” Edward paused. “Would you give me Glen Kirk as forfeit?”
He imposed an iron control on his face. “I am grateful for your choice of wife, sire. I am a fortunate man.” Alex bowed. He would never give up Glen Kirk.
The king straightened, clapped him on his back, and boomed in a loud voice, “Come, you’ll be married to your Lisbeth by proxy. I’ve arranged everything.”
Alex was certain he had. He smiled through clenched teeth.
“Lord Alex.” The king ushered Alex in front of a meek little man who hardly fit the elegant robes he wore. Two of Alex’s brother’s, Bennett and Cameron, moved out from the crowd and joined him.
“Easy, Alex,” said Cameron. “The king’s entertainment will soon be over.”
Alex stood there seething. The robed man went on and on but Alex stood rigid and remote. Glen Kirk was worth the inconvenience of a wife.
“Kneel, sir,” the robed man, sword in hand, demanded of Alex. “Kneel and prepare for the sword of courage.”
“Watch that sword of yours, Alex. You won’t need courage, more likely stamina. I suspect you’ll be thrusting it all night,” shouted someone, sending the crowd into peals of laughter.
Every muscle tightened but Alex forced a bland disinterested expression on his face while deep down he raged. Out of the corner of his eye he saw Bryce standing by the door. A silent signal passed between them.
“Steady, man,” cautioned Bennett.
“Take your rightful place and humble yourself before your king and maker. As you bravely and solemnly come here today, you have shown to all present that you are worthy and ready to care for this woman your king has chosen for you, from this day forward. To take thy woman’s hand is an act of bravery only supplanted by the call to arms”
“Is it war he enters or Lady Lisbeth?” Another roll of laughter passed through the room.
Husband or not, Lisbeth was Wesley’s daughter. Her name would not be dragged into this farce. He turned to the crowd and gave them a hostile stare.
The effect was immediate. The raucous talk quieted at once.
“Do you understand and accept this, sir?” The little man couldn’t hide the fear in his voice.
“Sure he does—now get on with it. There’s no wine until this is over.”
The king gently nudged Alex.
Alex glanced at Edward and saw something honest in his gentle smile. The edge smoothed off his anger. He turned to the holy man. “Yes, I understand.”
The sword was too heavy for the man to handle. The tip came dangerously close to Alex’s neck but he didn’t move. Cameron quickly interceded and helped place the blade on Alex’s shoulder.
Alex gave his brother a scathing look.
“Mother would never forgive me if I let someone lop off your head,” he whispered.
“Three times I tap thee, once in the name of our King…”
A shout rang up from the attending audience.
“…once in the name of our bishop, and once in the name of our holy protector. Now that you have knelt and been christened and tapped, I declare thee ready to receive your bride.”
The king squeezed his shoulder. The veiled woman approached. “My dear.” The king took her hand and drew her next to Alex.
With all the solemnness the little man could muster he began. “We are gathered here to join this man and this woman in a binding of life. At this day of binding, if any man declares any reason why they may not be coupled together, speak now.”
“It is all well with us—let them marry,” responded the crowd in unison.
The man turned to Alex. “Sir, do you take this woman who represents Lady Lisbeth Reynolds, daughter of the late Lord and Lady Reynolds to wife?”
Alex gave the obligatory response but he didn’t hear the rest of the ceremony.
“Lord Alex, I said you can kiss the bride,” said the frightened man.
The room was quiet. Whispers went through the room. “Who is she?”
“Well, Lord Alex? Do you need instructions?” The king’s words sent a ripple of laughter through the room that soon turned into a tidal wave.
With a smile on his face that didn’t reach his eyes, Alex gently unveiled his proxy wife. There staring at him with wide blue eyes and a lovely smile was Lady Barbara Kincaid.
She looked at him boldly. Another roll of laughter filled the room.
He gave her a nod. She was still a beauty after all the years.
“I know you did not brood when I declined your proposal.”
“No, m’lady. There was nothing to brood over. You were merely a youthful dalliance that was quickly forgotten.”
Barbara’s eyes widened at the insult. “Alex, is there someplace we can speak?”
“No, m’lady. I know of none.”
“Did you really vow to never take a wife?” asked another faceless voice in the room.
He looked at Barbara. She had a pleasant smile on her face. How well trained she had become in the ways of the court. She covered his affront with poise.
“I stand here ready to marry Lady Lisbeth. Does that answer your question?” Indeed he had vowed to never marry. The humiliation of his youthful blunder and her not-so-private rejection spread through court like a spring storm. He hadn’t enough words to thank his father for quickly getting him a commission with a regiment that left for Wales.
“We heard all about your brave deeds in Wales. You returned to us much changed,” said Barbara.
“Come on, Alex. Kiss the bride so we can get on.”
After four long hard years he had returned to London to find Barbara willing to renew their friendship. He had no interest.
Barbara moved with lightning speed, threw her arms around him, and kissed him deeply, to the enjoyment of the crowd.
He stood cold as a statue against her assault. “Let’s finish this entertainment, m’lady. I’ve important matters that need my attention.”
The spectacle over, the bride and groom mingled with the crowd.
“Alex,” his brothers Bennett and Cameron pulled him to the side. “We had no idea you were the intended groom. If we’d known, we would have gotten you away. We thought you and Bryce had left for Glen Kirk early this morning.”
“That was our plan but the king summoned me.” He nodded and flashed a tight-lipped smile at the people who walked by and congratulated him. “I leave for Glen Kirk as soon as I can, if I have to wake the king’s guard to open the gate.”
“We’ll go with you.”
He gave his brothers a penetrating stare. Finally, he relaxed. “No, you both stay here and enjoy the entertainment. But thank you for the offer. Bryce rides with me.” Alex headed for the door.
“Where are you going, Lord Alex? Aren’t you staying for your wedding feast?” asked Edward, who stood by the door speaking to Howard.
“No, sire.” He laughed as if amused. “I have a long journey to be with my wife.”
He watched Cameron sidle up and lead Barbara away. Both were quickly lost in the crowd.
A shiver of unease crossed his back. He focused on the king’s message still on his desk. He’d been back at Glen Kirk for weeks, and he still hadn’t told Lisbeth she was his wife. He let out a loud sigh. He could wait no longer. What would he say? He paced in front of the hearth. His quick mind was blank. He should have told her when he first arrived. He saw that now.
About the Author
RUTH A. CASIE is an author of swashbuckling action-adventure time-travel romance about strong empowered women and the men who deserve them, endearing flaws and all. Ruth also writes contemporary romance with enough action to keep you turning pages. She lives in New Jersey with her husband, three empty bedrooms and a growing number of incomplete counted cross-stitch projects. Before she found her voice, she was a speech therapist (pun intended), client liaison for a corrugated manufacturer, and international bank product and marketing manager, but her favorite job is the one she’s doing now—writing romance.
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Sunday, June 5, 2016

The Bride, The Groom & Me

Posted by: Janni Nell
Since this month’s theme is weddings, I thought I’d interview maid of honor Sassy Chance, from The Bride, The Groom & Me, for her views on the perfect wedding.

Janni Nell:         
Welcome, Sassy. You were your best friend’s maid of honor. What are your tips for the perfect wedding?

Sassy Chance:                   
Number one: Don’t lose the wedding ring. That actually happened to me, and it totally sucked. Major stress. I was in serious danger of ruining my best friend’s wedding. Still, I met a lot of interesting people, when I was searching for the ring. Notably PI Devlin Fox. He’s quite hot actually. Too bad my heat’s engaged elsewhere.

JN:         
Is Devlin the perfect wedding date?

SC:         
Weeell, Devlin’s great, really, but the absolute perfect wedding date should be able to dance. Devlin can kill a guy with his bare hands, but when it comes to dancing…let’s just say he’s great at martial arts.

JN:         
So who is the perfect wedding date?

SC:         
My friend, Nicky, adores weddings. He looks great in a tux. He can discuss the bride’s dress and shoes. He dances better than anyone I know. Of course, he’s gay, but you can’t have everything.

JN:         
Speaking of shoes—you work as a shoe sales clerk—what footwear do you recommend for the bride?

SC:         
My preference is for something classic. A satin pump in ivory or white—round toe, medium heel. Mind you, I recently saw a totally gorgeous high-heeled peep toe with a covered platform and diamontes that would be perfect for my own wedding, if ever I have one.

JN:         
Do you have a groom in mind?

SC:         
Yikes, it’s confession time. I’m such a bad maid of honor. Totally in love with my best friend’s groom. I know he’ll never be mine, but sometimes I wish….(sigh) Oh, let’s talk about something else. Did I ever tell you about those bitchy bridesmaids?

JN:
I can’t wait to hear the dirt.

SC:
Listen up, but this is completely off the record, right?

JN:
And that’s where I’ll have to end this interview, but you can read more about Sassy Chance in The Bride, The Groom & Me. Now free.





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Thursday, September 25, 2014

Throw Back Thursday ~ Happy Anniversary

Posted by: Ruth A Casie
My parents came from very similar backgrounds, Eastern European. My Mom’s family was from Rovna, Ukraine and immigrated here in 1900. Mom was born in New York City in 1908. My Dad’s family is from Snovsk, Ukraine and immigrated to the United States in 1910, when Dad was six.

Sept 26, 1929 Outside Dad's First Office
I’ve been thinking about my parents a lot lately. Today would have been their 85th wedding anniversary. Both of them are gone but certainly not forgotten. I always found the story of how they met and married a bit of a romantic comedy. Their families came from the same vicinity, near Kiev. But it wasn’t until they were young adults that my Mom, Jessie, and Dad, Aaron, meet.

Both my grandmothers were single parents. Their husbands were victims of the 1918 flu pandemic. My maternal grandmother, Ida, was a piece goods worker hemming pant cuffs and shortening sleeves. My paternal grandmother, Mary, had a small grocery store.

In the early part of the 20th century, the Catskills in upstate New York had bungalow colonies where families would go to get out of the city for a week’s vacation in the summer. This is where my parents met. While my mother denied it and my father stayed very quiet, Mom’s brother, Uncle Jay, swears their marriage was arranged.

Jessie was 21 and working as a secretary. Aaron was 25 and graduating dental school. According to Uncle Jay, Jessie was dating a handsome medical student, Ben, from Texas and, while a doctor was a blessing, Ida feared her only daughter would move away. Aunt Rose, Dad’s sister, told me Mary wanted Aaron, the youngest of seven and the last one unmarried, to settle down. It was time for him to start his family with a sensible woman. Ida and Mary introduced Jessie and Aaron and found lots of reasons for them to be together. Neither Jessie nor Aaron was happy with their plans. Ida threw a part for Jessie and Aaron but was a bit miffed when Aaron brought another woman as his date and Jessie walked in on Ben’s arm.

Back in the City, Jessie and Aaron spent time together the rest of the summer. Aaron became part of Jessie group of friends. Jessie was a practical realistic woman and a bit of a quiet person especially compared to Aaron’s outgoing nature. He held whatever audience he had enthralled with his stories and jokes.

On September 25, Uncle Jay came home from classes at Fordham University and was told to get dressed in his best suit. Jessie was getting married in their Aunt’s apartment across the hall. He was excited. He liked Ben. He stopped short when he saw Jessie with Aaron.
Ben pleaded his case up to the end but Ida would not hear any of it. He graduated, returned to Texas and never married. Jessie and Aaron had a good life together. Mom never spoke of Ben, not even when my sister and I would pester. She would just smile and tell us she wouldn’t change anything for the world.


Happy Anniversary, Mom and Dad.  

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